Trust is just the same with respect... It is not asked nor given,
it is EARNED. But, are there really people who you can trust wholly?
Maybe, very few and chosen people can be trustworthy, someone who will
not take advantage of your openness. I am very friendly, outspoken and
let others see the real me. I give them the right to know who I am and everything about me. I am very transparent and can't hide anything
from people close to me. And I don’t care if some misunderstood me, IT IS
ME! But behind these characters, I have come to realized that sometimes, it is
better not to tell all my life events to people who I thought can keep secrets
and who won't talk behind my back. No one to blame, felt no anger but a
bit of dismay. I just learned to accept it because that is their
personality and at least I knew it early. I feel sorry for you, you, and
you because I have lost my trust (as if you care).
Just a thought,
when someone trusts you, be thankful and be sincere because not everyone are
given that privileged. And once it’s lost, it will take you a lifetime to
get it back.
So when I said I trust you, take it because I really mean it. No paybacks needed, just preserve the trust.. That's simple!
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved"